In Waiting

That title is appropriate on so many levels right now in our lives. The biggest I cannot say yet but I hope to let you all know soon! We have been very busy lately (mostly Gordon with school. Oh how I do NOT miss the homework!) but we’ve made some time for a little fun with family and friends. These posts have been waiting to be published for over a week (as you can see from the date 9/8. I hate using the computer at home when I’ve been using one all day. Home is a sanctuary and I’d like to keep it that way).

Weber State, Weber State, GREAT GREAT GREAT

This weekend Gordon attended his first extracurricular school event. We went to Weber State’s homecoming football game with Weber State’s biggest sports fans Katherine and Marc. Those of you that know Gordon know he is not a big sports fan. He didn’t marry the biggest sports fan either. However, I do love to watch football! I’m am one of those fans that hoots and hollers, screams at the ref if he didn’t make a good call, and cheers very loud for my favorite players (I also run up and down the football field, but that’s only at my nephew’s game). Gordon does neither of those things. He claps at all the appropriate times, and never hoots or hollers. He is great company, not because of his fan status, but because of his height! He caught a water bottle and 2 footballs at the game (although a very upset mother in front of us made him feel bad for ‘stealing’ the water bottle from her daughter so he ended up just giving it to her). Besides the guilt trip, it was a great game with Weber winning Dixie State (and there were fireworks too).

That's the closest to purple that Gordon would wear, or had to wear.

Again, he's not a sports fan.

Before the game we added a little culture to our lives by attending the multicultural fair in Ogden. I have never heard of it this fair before, but Katherine needed to go to get some extra credit for a class and our friends Richard and Rachel were manning a booth so we decided to broaden our ways and attend too. We went through a time machine and got a card with instructions to visit every booth and experience that time in history, then get sticker and move on. Needless to say, we only visited the booths where we got free food (yep, poor married folks do that, plus we didn’t eat dinner that night). We were surprised how full we were with rootbeer floats, pumpkin muffins, dutch-oven biscuits, and hamburgers, chips, and watermelon by the time we left. The booths weren’t anything special and really didn’t expand our views on culture but the entertainment sure did. We caught a few minutes of a Buddhist church presentation where there was drums and dancing. Very interesting to watch. I wanted to go visit their temple, but they announced that they do not do these rituals there so I changed my mind.

The Best of Both Worlds

It was just going to be another typical evening at the gym: turbo kick for 60 minutes, abs, then go home. My sister in law, Jodi, had different plans and oh what a great plan it was! We both love the show Gossip Girl (think what you will, I love it!) and we both love the gym so she decided rather than rush home and miss the first 10 minutes of the show we would combine both of our loves and use the treadmill while we watch our show. Brilliant! So instead of the measly 300 calories I normally burn, I kicked it up to 450 all while watching my favorite show. Go ME! So every Monday night you will find me at the gym working hard and watching my show. Thanks Jodi. You are a genius! It feels good to be back (and by back I mean working out for more than hour. How did we let ourselves get in a rut?!) And to have you back. Best gym partner ever!

A very good combination!

Four-Wheelers instead of Wave Runners, Oh MY!

This weekend we took what I think may be the last trip to Bear Lake for the year (although we’re trying to talk my mom into going up in the winter so we have somewhere to stay that is close to Beaver Mountain when we go snowboarding). I have never seen Bear Lake or Garden City so deserted. It was wonderful! There was no waiting in a long line for milkshakes, or rushing to the beach early in the morning to claim your spot. One of the biggest differences was seeing four-wheelers instead of wave runners and boats. Weird. It was the first time my parents brought up their four-wheelers and left their wave runners behind. The small change of temperature brings new fun. I had no idea how many trails there were to four-wheel on up there. Gordon and Tim were gone most of the afternoon on Saturday exploring them. My mom, the dogs, and I hung out at the beach. It was the perfect sunbathing weather. We laid out all afternoon without getting hot!

I know I have said this before, but Bear Lake is truly one of my favorite places to visit and I do not hesitate to say that it is my home away from home. Even if I only go up there for a few days it’s my retreat from the world. I’m grateful for the opportunity I have to live so close to my favorite retreat where I can take a break from everything and spend time with my husband and family.

The 'tanner' looking spots on his face is dirt from four-wheeling. Dirty Boys.

Instead of sand, we stood in sea-shells! LOVE IT!

Gordon found these particulary big shells for me. He came up to me and said "I found some really big shells!" I thought he was going to propose to me all over again! (For those of you that don't know Gordon proposed to me at Bear Lake on the beach. Short version: We were looking for seashells, which is one of my favorite things to do, when he told me "Jess, I found the biggest shell" and when I turned around he was on one knee, ring in hand asking me to marry him! Oh, he's so dang cute!)

Happy Tears

Last night my dad invited us to a mandatory dinner. He told me it was to celebrate my new job. He told my sister it was to discuss tickets for a Green Bay Packers game. My sister and I didn’t discuss the reason for the dinner when we had talk on the phone earlier that day so we didn’t know we were told different things. My sister wasn’t sure if she was going to be able to make it. My dad not only bugged her all day about coming, but asked me to find out why she might not come and bug her until she agreed to come. I didn’t think anything of this. When Gordon got home I told him we were going to dinner with my dad. The first thing he says was “I bet you he’s going tell us he’s getting married.” WHAT?! Why would that be the first thing that pops into his head? My dad has been known to invite us to dinner spur of the moment so it wasn’t out of the ordinary for us to be going. I told Gordon it was to celebrate my new job (“me, me, me” as my family would say). It wasn’t until Brenda’s son got out of my dad’s car when I started to think he had something very important to tell us. When we sat down I noticed that Brenda was not using her left hand. She kept it “hidden” in her lap. She did this for 30 minutes! Then in the middle of conversation, my dad looks at each of us and says “I’m going to need you, you, you, and you to stand with us on October 11 when Brenda and I get married.” HOLY COW! There were smiles all around the table! My sister and I were in shock! Our dad is getting married! My dad has dated a few girls since my parents got divorced but never once thought about marriage. And Brenda has never been married before and didn’t really care if she ever was. But I have never seen my dad so happy. He’s been radiating happiness ever since they met. I could not be more excited for him. Brenda is a wonderful lady and treats my dad like the amazing man that he is.

So on October 11 I will be standing proud along side my husband, sister, and nephew to “give my dad away.” I never thought I would be going to my parent’s weddings (since in most cases they are already married before you are born). That’s something I don’t wish for people, but I feel very blessed to be able to watch my parents become happy again and find the love of their lives.

My 8 Things

I’ve never been tagged before, so a big THANKS goes to my cousin Kim for “tagging” me with My 8 Things.

8 TV shows I love to watch (we only get 2 channels on our TV (14 & 30). Good thing they run episodes of these shows on the Internet):
The Office
Gossip Girl
The Hills
Flight of the Conchords
Friends
Desperate Housewives
30 Rock
The OC

8 restaurants I love:
Ogden Pizzeria
Warrens/Dylans
Grideli’s
Andy’s
Costa Vida/Café Rio
Paradise Bakery
Tasties
Tona

8 things I am doing today:
Checking out a local senior center & their volunteers
Going to the gym where I will take a turbo kick class (YIKES!)
Cook dinner for my hardworking husband
Dishes
Take the dogs for a walk
Catch up on my TV via the Internet
Laundry
Clean up all my messes from the day!

8 things I am looking forward to:
Gordon graduating
Gordon finding the job of his dreams
Buying a home
Having too many volunteers (for my new job)
Going to the gym
Starting a family & being a mom
The snow
The weekend(s)

8 things I love about summer:
Shorts
Swimsuits
Sandals
Bear Lake
Camping
BBQs
Summer nights
Change of scenery & temperature

8 Olympic events I want to see: *This year was my first year of actually watching the Olympics and I wanted to see:
Diving
Marathon
Gymnastics
Swimming
Opening Ceremony
Closing Ceremony
*I know there's only six but gymnastics includes many other events that add up to more than eight

8 things on my wish list:
House
New Coach purse and wallet (that is a never ending wish because once I get a new one I always wish for another one)
New furniture to put in my house
Land Cruiser for Gordon
Money (without working for it)
A new Subaru each year
Tour the world before we have kids (especially Europe)
My own cabin at Bear Lake

Now I tag: anyone that wants to do it (I hate being put on the spot)

I'm Not Swiss, But I Enjoy Their Days

The Hardcastle girls had our 2nd Annual girl’s trip this Labor Day weekend. We headed off to Midway, Utah for good ol’ Swiss Days. Two years ago I had no idea these days even existed. But I’m glad that they do because it gives me the chance to spend some quality time with my sister-in-laws and mom-in-law.

For this annual event we head up to Midway early Friday morning (if my mom-in-law had her way we would leave even earlier than we do so we don’t miss the ‘good’ crafts) and spend a few hours of wandering up and down isles of booths loaded with different types of crafts. The first hour I’m all gung-ho, then the heat sets in and all of the crafts start to look alike. This year wasn’t nearly as hot as last year, which I was indeed grateful for. Just like last year, LeeAnn and I both were on the search for craft ideas that we could duplicate ourselves, except this year I actually want to duplicate them. My mom-in-law has a great talent of making crafts. I, on the other hand, have a great church calling that requires me to make crafts (yep, I’m the craft coordinator). So instead of spending all my money on crafts that LeeAnn says we can easily make, I wait and spend it all at the outlets in Park City (although this year I did by this picture. I wanted it last year and didn’t buy it so when I saw it again this year and still wanted it, I bought).

Jodi, Me, and Mel (who is oh so excited to get her picture taken)

I wanted to buy this for Gordon, but they just didn't have his size

Last year I was much more ‘successful’ at spending my money and had way more shopping bags than everyone else, but this year I passed that torch to Jodi who bought something in just about every store we went into. I was real close to buying a ‘fancy’ wallet at the Coach outlet, but I thought my marriage was a bit more important then a matching wallet for my purses.

Aside from the shopping, we went to Baja Cantina for dinner where once again we had crappy service. I guess that will follow us in our tradition each year because last year we went to a different restaurant and had crappy service. The trip wouldn’t have been complete without a stroll on Main Street and a pit stop at the chocolate factory to get a caramel apple (and some doggie treats for little ones at home). Then it's back to our hotel for some TV and rest (which this year we didn't get a lot of although we should have by going to bed before 10pm!).

They both didn't know if I was tricking them or not because the smell was so sweet...

Abbi soon got over it and enjoyed the chocolatie goodness

I had a blast on this trip. It is so fun to spend time with my in-law family. It makes me grateful to have such a wonderful in-law family. So many people complain about their in-laws but I love mine like my own family. I can’t wait ‘til next year!

*While I played Gordon worked hard helping my step-dad finish his 'shed' aka garage. He's learning so one day he can build a massive one in our backyard*